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不是孩子搞不懂，
是我們沒搞懂孩子的大腦。

為什麼孩子好似聽懂了，卻還是不會寫？
撐不過半節課，整個人就放空？
老是自言自語，不聽人說話？
其實，只要了解兒童大腦的運作，多一點點幫助，孩子未來就有機會往上跳一階。

家長心安定，孩子才會好
起跑點跟終點只是片刻，過程往往最重要。
瓶頸永遠存在，不該自我框架。
孩子是我們的延伸，而不是我們。
學習最重要的核心，並非成果，而是完整的歷練過程。

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內頁詳情&內容介紹

Film Introduction
https://youtu.be/qDYKChZ1ox4

∖ Use "good questions" to open up deep parent-child dialogues∕
All 365 days with your child will be more special and better because of the different issues!
Parent-child communication questions for understanding children's hearts, building connections, and exploring and thinking.

"How was school today?"
"How are you getting along with your classmates?"
Are there always the same old "problems" with children?
After the age of 3, it is important for parents to learn to ask "different questions"!
This book contains 270 out-of-the-box, thought-provoking questions.
Enhance the breadth of parent-child conversations so that children can learn to think differently.
These questions will lead you in unexpected directions!
Which question do you want to ask tonight?

★Different questions to stimulate your child's thinking

After the age of 3, children's vocabulary is expanding and they like to ask "why" as a way of understanding and exploring the world. There is a classic saying in Jewish education, "Good questions are better than good answers. When we ask different questions in a gradual manner, it is the best time to guide children to reflect and learn.

In order to find out the answer, the child must not only think, but also generalize logic from life experience, or actively explore from surrounding resources. In the process of finding out the answer, the child's curiosity and motivation to learn are stimulated, discernment is enhanced, and the ability to generalize logic is strengthened, and the question and answer not only encourages the child to reflect and stimulates the child's good side, but also breaks away from the communication mode of parental discipline, which is to reason, and then scold when the reasoning doesn't make sense. The questions and answers not only encourage children to reflect and stimulate their good side, but also get rid of the communication pattern of parents who teach reasoning and scolding when it doesn't make sense.

The questions in the book are written specifically for children, but they are by no means childish. Some of them are funny, even silly. Others are serious questions that address the dilemmas children may face as they grow up, including facing authority, recognizing friendships, dealing with social pressures, overcoming fears, and determining right from wrong. When children think about the questions in this book, they are practicing making choices.

"Cruelty or not.
Do you want to take a pill that makes you strong? Or a pill to be brave?
Do you want to be slim and athletic, but a little clumsy in the head, or do you want to be fat and bulky, but smart in the head?

[Sobering Reflection]
◎如果你可以跟別人交換人生一個禮拜，你會想跟誰交換呢？
 What would you do if your whole family forgot your birthday?

[Interesting Fantasy]
  If you had to choose an age from which you would never grow old, at what age would you choose to stay?
◎如果你可以擁有一種神奇的魔力，你會希望是什麼呢？

"About Yourself
 If you could choose a new name for yourself, what would it be?
◎如果你喝了神奇藥水，無論發生什麼事情都不會傷心難過，你會想喝嗎？

[About family]
 If you could change one thing about Mom and Dad, what would you want to change?
  If one day your dad has a whim and dyes his hair green and wears a nose ring. He might draw attention to himself. Would you still want to go to the grocery store with him?

"Ethics
Have you ever cursed someone for having bad luck? If so, who was that person? Why did you do it?
  What secrets do you not want your friends to know about your family?

"About Friendship
 If a friend gives you a gift that is not to your liking, do you pretend to like it?
 If you could make anyone your best friend, who would you choose?

★Tips about using this book:
1. At the end of each question, you can ask your child "Why? The questions in the book are not sequential or continuous.
The quizzes can be read randomly, and parents and children can take turns asking questions or discussing with each other depending on the situation.
2. If neither the parent nor the child is able to answer immediately, they can reserve time to think about the answer and discuss it later.
3. Answers that require in-depth thinking can also be written down with pen and paper to train the completeness of thinking and answering.
4. Parents and children can also write down their answers separately, and then compare them with each other and extend the discussion.
5, through the question and answer, let adults understand more about how children see themselves, and how they see the world, and even be able to
Discover your child's values about the people, events, and things around him/her, and guide him/her to think positively and correctly.

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2-3 weeks

呢本可能係最受老婆歡迎的一本書！ 這是本會引發所有已婚妻子共鳴的書

If you think you are unfortunate, I have good news for you. In fact, most husbands in the world are incompetent husbands, only to varying degrees! Graphic writer Minoru Inoue observes, collects and organizes the characteristics and ecology of various kinds of inept husbands around her, and uses humorous illustrations and words to help new women in the future. After reading this hilarious book, wives can look forward to a bright and beautiful tomorrow.

Unmarried women I'm not sure if I should recommend it to you, I hope you read this book, as a joke to see it is good, may be you around the fruit of the relationship between one in a million it!

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Fans and wives are clamoring for a sequel.
Mr. and Mrs. Pampered Wife Second Round

Is your brain always screaming and your eyes always glued to the TV or cell phone screen?
It takes three hours to take out the garbage and three hours to do the housework!

This time, author Matthew and his wife teamed up.
Publicizing the most intimate and effective brain-training secrets, the
Dedicated to all the wives and girlfriends in the world!

馬修太太來幫太太們說出心聲
This time, Mrs. Matthew will be the first heroine in the book, from the wife's point of view, sharing how to get the brain male to help share the household chores, how to make teammates more gentle and considerate, and let us know that sometimes the wife just do not want to poke and prod, and is not completely unaware of these and those of the brain male.

更爆笑的夫妻生活大公開
Although some actions are full of love, it may not be suitable for the brain man to do it, so the girl has to do it by herself. Otherwise, the original idol drama like blow-drying your wife's hair will only result in the tragedy of your wife becoming a chaste woman. The original hand bumped into the pouting, but the brain will not be able to distinguish between left and right hands, not only the pain has not been alleviated, but also have to spend effort to roll their eyes. More couples, the hilarious plot all open, and we believe that your home is also the same!

愛妻寵妻不只100%更升級爆表
The new generation of illustrators can't live up to the title of wife-loving devil! What's more, when his wife is pregnant, he has to take care of his wife and child in addition to his original household chores. He has to help his wife with bathing and full-body massages without any desire to do so, and sometimes he even sacrifices his body just because his pregnant wife wants to be "tickled". The wife-loving devil is officially upgraded to a wife and child-loving devil!

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Estimated arrival: 4 weeks to arrive

A Solid Foundation in Adlerian Psychology
The latest research on children's brain developmental stages
Understanding Children's Psychological Development
And the child's temperament, temperament

本書是專為孩子設計的基礎「溫和且堅定」教養原則，使父母可以在孩子最重要的發展時期，為他打下一輩子的優良基礎。

書中的教養工具都從「常理」出發，有系統地協助父母採行溫和且堅定的親子互動，目標是讓你的孩子成為有能力、有自信的人，又擁有健康的社交與生活技能。

書中更結合了大腦發育階段的最新研究，為父母們解釋孩子行為背後的原因。當你更瞭解孩子，就知道許多時候他只是拿出「適齡行為」，而非「不乖」，這樣就可避免大量的親子衝突。

書中的教養工具，告訴父母如何：

鼓勵幼兒探索外界，同時設下合理界限
採用「非懲罰性」方法，培養孩子正向行為及重要社交技能
正確辨識出孩子何時已可學習進食、睡眠、如廁訓練
避免親子間爆發權力爭奪
看出孩子的個性與氣質
採用關於兒童大腦發展階段的最新成果，來搭配正向教養工具

All of the examples in this book come from real-life family parenting and child care situations, and are the valuable experiences of millions of parents and first-line teachers and caregivers. This book is a must-have parenting toolkit for parents.

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你對孩子的愛，
究竟是幫了孩子，還是傷了孩子？

Is loving your child with all your might really an effective way of parenting? The truth is: sometimes "love" leads well-intentioned parents to the extremes of control, spoiling, or indulgence, turning family life into a parent-child power struggle that leads to endless arguments and conflicts.

The purpose of this book is to help parents identify the most effective parenting practices for their children and their parents, and to foster an ideal parent-child relationship; and to stimulate parents to think about what they really want to teach their children, as well as to guide them to look beyond the long-term effects of teaching their children.

It also helps parents build confidence and knowledge, and develop the parenting skills necessary to teach their children not only with love, but also with wisdom. The book is full of practical parenting tools, techniques, attitudes, and behaviors, including:

7個方法，使你脫離「失控生氣→愧疚懊悔」的循環
9個原因，造成父母一再使用無效的教養方式
家庭品格教育的4種基礎
孩子最需要的關鍵7項能力
孩子缺乏歸屬感時會出現的4種補償行為
如何知道自己是不是一個「愛太多的父母」？
如何進入孩子的世界？
為什麼許多「當下感覺最好的」教養方式，往往不是最佳選項？

Through the contents of this book, parents can begin to help their children make good decisions and guide them to become positive, competitive adults who not only live a happy, enjoyable life, but also contribute to the world around them.

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Parenting Exercise Manual for Parents
"Say it! What's wrong with you?"
"What are you crying for? Stop crying!"
"Okay, whatever. I don't care about you." ......

當孩子表現不佳、情緒跳針，你沒有意識說出的情緒話，
Scarring your child psychologically by making him or her feel negatively, or even tying him or her down?

學習正面表達，親子溝通不NG
44 exercises for parents and children to recognize and regulate emotions together

「說話」是日常生活中與孩子最頻繁的互動，也是最有效的教養行為。父母應該建立正向的說話習慣與做事方式，辨識孩子的情緒並加以引導，才能幫助孩子積極面對日常生活中的挑戰。

全書的舉例與建議，對應於生活中的不同情境，並涵蓋孩子成長和社會化過程會遭遇的挑戰，讓你學會：
Positive Expression Skills: Understand and confront your child's frustrating situation by "re-stating" specific suggestions for parents' common landmine language.
Identifying and managing emotions: Practice activities for children, including journaling, red and green light self-tests, breathing and relaxation for emotional relief ......, etc., lead children to recognize emotions and find the connection between the body and emotions.
Help your child build self-esteem and a sense of security: guide your child's motivation, develop a sense of responsibility, play a supportive role in your child's daily life, and more.

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Collecting the essence of positive parenting × Solving difficult parenting problems × As a parent-child interactive game
53 tool cards that are relevant to life situations and practical needs.
No need to go through heavy books, a card is a parenting exercise!

「正向教養」是以阿德勒學說為基礎的教養法，主張消除所有懲罰與獎賞，強調用「鼓勵」來教養孩子。過去將近四十年，「正向教養」已經成為美國主流的教養方式。作者為鼓勵父母將教養精華落實於親子生活中，特別製作全套共53張的親子互動工具卡。卡片中每項工具都符合正向教養五大特色，還能改善負面行為，有助於培養孩子品格與生活技能。

【正向教養的五大特色】

協助孩子感受情感連結、歸屬感與自我價值。
父母能在同一時間表現出溫和與堅定。
實用且具長期效果。
教導孩子兼具品格與價值的生活技能，培養尊重且關心他人、解決問題與相互合作的精神，以及擁有能貢獻家庭、學校或社會的技能。
促使孩子發現自己擁有許多能力，並了解該如何正確地運用。

[53 exquisite and practical cards to improve your parenting skills].
Suggested Usage of Positive Parenting Parent-Child Interaction Tool Card

Book Features

每張卡片介紹一項正向教養工具，將正向教養的概念具體化、實用化。

想要查詢正向教養工具時，不用翻閱厚重書籍，平時也能隨身攜帶，易於參考與使用。

父母可於日常生活中用來自我提醒，也可和孩子一起練習，讓自己更熟悉正向教養工具。

簡單文字搭配可愛插圖，能以放鬆的心情增進教養技巧。

使用說明

"Positive Parenting Parent-Child Interaction Toolkit" User Guide

Positive Parenting Instructor Edith Yao suggests four fun ways you can use the Parent-Child Interaction Tool Cards:

平時練習
Start now, pick a card from the list and keep practicing the tools in the card for at least a week.

面臨衝突
When faced with a parenting challenge, you can either close your eyes and choose intuitively, or you can choose a card with a title or design that appeals to you. There's usually a good chance that the positive parenting tools on the card are the best things you can use to teach your child self-discipline and responsibility while solving parenting problems. If you don't think the card you've picked out is appropriate, put it down and pick it out again until you find a tool that solves the problem.

與孩子一起解決衝突
When you are faced with a parent-child challenge, invite your child to choose a card from the list, referencing the previous point. Ask your child to tell you if the tool written on the card can solve the problem, and if not, put it down and pick another one until you choose the one that does.

親子活動
You and your child take turns drawing cards. Read the cards out loud when they are drawn and act out the suggestions for parent-child interaction on the card. For example, the person who drew "do a chore" does a chore, the person who drew "hug" asks for a hug, and so on. You may be surprised to find that your child enjoys this activity!

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4-5 weeks

That's what moms of preschoolers are really saying.
魔獸在家歡必霸，進了幼兒園就能乖乖聽話？
餵個藥滿屋子跑，老師一出手不用３秒就搞定？
整天動作慢吞吞，怎麼老師兩句話活力重開？
Why can kindergarten teachers be so godlike!

Yes, the Beast is right in front of us, and you're exhausted.
Who can be gentle and firm in positive parenting at this point;
Or a satyr conversation to understand the inner iceberg ......
Moms just want the "power of the moment" to solve the situation at hand!

日本神級幼兒園老師14年與學齡前魔獸纏鬥經驗，
135 Magic Communication Techniques to Organize Your Child's Instant Obedience
You don't have to rush or yell, and you don't have to get seriously angry with your child.
Mastering the changes in your child's mind and body, shifting attention, and dealing with ......99% problems with play can all be solved!

實證有效！馴服孩子的歡、盧、吵！
Solving the 9 most frustrating parenting problems for parents
/Going out / Organizing / Eating / Sleeping / Rules / Making friends / Expressing / Praising and blaming / Mind and body

Mr. T's Magic Communication
出門拖拖拉拉→自製通行卡，車子要出發嚕
鞋子物品到處丟→貼上貼紙，以後就停在這裡喔
穿衣服笨手笨腳→先用大腸圈練習、大人從身後示範
每次催著收東西就藉口一堆→與大人接力分工、分解任務、說出理由
孩子不吃飯→增加期待感、擅用變臉APP、給飯飯票券、媽媽餐館上菜嚕、賣場試吃員、公主不會這樣喔
藥藥吞不下去→快用吸管喝口水
早上愛賴床→來看媽媽昨天寫給你的祕密、車子要出發嚕
整天黏著大人，我要工作啊→給一個媽媽工作時的專用玩具
整天吵吵鬧鬧→現在來學螞蟻說話

BSL.9789576588013

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Estimated Arrival: 4-5 Weeks

溫柔堅定管教‧理解孩子內心
Parent-Child Emotional Exercises for Starting with Child Care
To get out of the parenting dilemma of out-of-control outbursts, collapsing and yelling at each other.
Parents have the ability to deal with their emotions rationally.
It is the only way to teach positive and happy children, and to be closer to their hearts!

練習不後悔的生氣方法，育兒不再以怒吼收場
"I'm gonna be so mad at you!"
"How many times do I have to say it before I get it?"
Have you ever lost your mind and yelled at your child in the face of his or her irrational behavior, disobedient actions, turning around and seeing all kinds of dangerous actions, and the ensuing quarrels, both big and small?

"Before I had kids, I never thought I'd react so much to my irritability."
"I hardly ever get angry at work, but now I'm mad at my own kids every day."

I'm sure there are many parents out there who have felt overwhelmed by this agitation and have been plunged into a deep sense of guilt, but rest assured that it's "natural" for parents to be angry with their children on some level.
Parents get agitated because we desperately want our children to know a message in our hearts, and we blame ourselves because we love our children so much. Now, let go of the guilt and just practice non-regretful pranayama! By understanding the nature of that irritation, working with it, and using the right methods, "anger" can be a great help in parenting!
The key to not wanting to regret being angry with your child is to "not have to be patient" but to just decide what you "need to be angry" and what you "don't need to be angry" about!
用耐心和理解接住孩子的情緒球，成為溫暖靠山

從容面對育兒困境，做孩子的情緒榜樣

First of all, think seriously about the message that agitation is trying to tell us.
And decide when you should be angry and when you shouldn't be?
When you are angry with your child, follow the 3 rules: don't hurt yourself, don't hurt your child's self-esteem, and don't break things.
Step 1: Wait for 6 seconds before getting angry to ease your anger.
Step 2: Decide what to be angry about and what not to be angry about.
Step 3: Let your child know your mom's anger level.
Step 4: Decide on a "Discipline Method" when you are angry.
Step 5] Develop a "soft-spoken" approach to communication.

特色
Feature 1: Parental agitation stems from love, and because they want to teach their children well, it's especially easy to create an adversarial relationship. Blaming is an important form of parent-child communication, and this book shows how parents can lose their guilt when they blame their children in the right way.
Feature 2: It only takes 6 seconds to hit the pause button to calm an emotional storm. There is a way to get rid of rational anger, and there is a way to get rid of emotional
Emotional management is very simple. With the anger SOP, parents can have a rational and good anger.
Feature 3: There are ways to alleviate anger, through more than 65 kinds of emotional management magic, let your child know that adults are angry!
The reason for this is that not only are the children more understanding, but the parents can also develop a "non-irritable body".
Feature 4: In the process of parenting, apart from the role of a mother as a constant companion, a father must also play the role of a god teammate to ensure the healthy development of the child both physically and mentally. It's great for dads and moms to practice emotional management together and deal with emotional ups and downs properly, not only to protect their children, but also to protect themselves, and to establish good communication between parents and children through rational anger.

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