33 Crucial Words a Mom Must Learn

33 Crucial Words a Mom Must Learn

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💙 Mom's mantra that affects her child's life.
💙 "Parental Words" determine a child's character and achievement.

Children who lie a lot, who are hot for three minutes, who cry when they don't move, who love to sing the opposite tune... Do you often lose control of your children's behavior? On buses and subways, you will always see loud and noisy children running around, and then the mother will always scold the child, "If you keep on doing that, the police will come to arrest you! "Look, that uncle is getting angry!" The child may be quiet at the moment, but the next day, in a different place or situation, the child will still make a lot of noise. Parents are just repeating the vicious parenting cycle of "angry -> scolding child, scolding child -> angry".

"If you keep doing that, I'll call the police to come and arrest you! This is not only "threatening" the child, but it is also tantamount to putting the blame on someone else. This makes the child think that it is okay to do it "as long as the police are not around"!

Tell the reason, reason with the child so that he won't make the mistake again.

💜One word out of control can destroy a child's life
Children between the ages of 1 and 12 are not yet able to express their thoughts clearly, but they can develop "negative feelings" as a result.
It's not the child's fault that he or she doesn't listen, it's "what the parents say" that causes the child to disobey!
Raising "Good Character Kids" or "Bad Character Kids"? In a word, you can decide.
Discard the idea that children grow up only when they are scolded.

💜Clear and correct parenting philosophy: Children are not an accessory to their parents and have the right to enjoy their own lives. Based on this, parents need to develop their children's ability to adapt to the future world through "talking".

💜 [Lifelike] situational examples: Examples of everyday visible situations are close to life and can easily resonate.

💜No Pressure [Parenting Sentence]: a complete list of 43 things parents must be able to say to their children so that mom and dad don't
The article is highly practical in that it focuses on the importance of not hurting a child's heart by talking out of control.

💜 Easy-to-learn Parenting Tips: At the end of each chapter is a "Big Hands Pulling Little Hands Column", which points out the things you should pay attention to when teaching your children, such as calling them by their first names to recognize their existence, and focusing on eye-to-eye emotional communication in conversation, which is even more effective when paired with the parenting keywords in the text.